Calendar of Events


Six to Twelve Months before the Wedding
15 Aug 2016

Six to Twelve Months before the Wedding

Six to Twelve Months before the Wedding First things First. . . Determine your wedding date. Choose the style and formality of your wedding which best suits your lifestyle and personality. “Classic Formal,” “Formal,” “Semi-Formal” or “Informal.” Discuss your wedding budget. “Who pays for what?” Will your parents contribute? Choose a color scheme and theme for your wedding. Explore possible chapels, churches or synagogue locations....

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15 Aug 2016

The Day before the Wedding

The Day before the Wedding Decorate for ceremony and reception, if possible, early in the day.  Confirm delivery times with your party rental shop. Keep your appointment for manicure and pedicure. Arrive thirty minutes early for rehearsal to greet your attendants. Attend “Rehearsal Dinner.” Present attendants with your gift of appreciation during the rehearsal dinner, if not given previously  at the “Bridesmaid Luncheon” or “Bachelor...

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15 Aug 2016

One to Two Weeks before the Wedding

One to Two Weeks before the Wedding Host “Bridesmaid Luncheon.” Give attendants’ gifts at this time. Confirm rehearsal plans with attendants and request their timely arrival. Confirm reservations for “Rehearsal Dinner.” Confirm reservations for out-of-town guests. Confirm final guest count to caterer. Delegate last minute errands and details. Groom’s “Bachelor Party” should be at least one week prior to wedding. Pack your “Wedding Survival Kit”...

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15 Aug 2016

Two to Four Weeks before the Wedding

Two to Four Weeks before the Wedding Apply for your marriage license.  Be sure to call ahead for a list of required documents. Confirm rehearsal plans with your officiant and church wedding coordinator. Send Thank You Cards as gifts begin to arrive.  Also see “How to Write a Thank You Card.” Arrange to move belongings to your new home. Arrange for name change, as necessary. Bank...

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15 Aug 2016

Four to Six Weeks before the Wedding

Four to Six Weeks before the Wedding Discuss and finalize details with your: Pastor/Officiant Church Soloist Caterer Florist Baker/Cake Decorator Bridal Shop Tux Shop Limo Service Photographer Videographer Travel Agent Musicians/DJ Jeweler/Engraver Rehearsal Dinner Site Schedule appointment with hairdresser for bride, attendants and mothers.  A popular alternative today is to hire a hairdresser and makeup artist to meet with the wedding party at the church....

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15 Aug 2016

Six to Eight Weeks Before the Wedding

Six to Eight Weeks Before the Wedding Begin addressing invitations and announcements. Draw map to ceremony and reception for inclusion in your invitation. Finalize your “Order of Service” for the ceremony and order wedding program. Arrange for physical examinations and blood tests if required to obtain marriage license in your state. Select a location for your rehearsal dinner and make necessary reservations. Confirm formal wear...

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15 Aug 2016

Three to Four Months Before the Wedding

Three to Four Months Before the Wedding Select Mothers gowns and accessories.  Order immediately if not in hanging stock. Also see “Responsibilities of the Mother of the Bride” and “Responsibilities of the Mother of the Groom” Select tuxedos’ for your groom, his attendants and fathers of the couple. Measurements should be submitted to the tux shop within the next month. It is preferable for  attendants...

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15 Aug 2016

Four to Six Months Before the Wedding

Four to Six Months Before the Wedding Obtain the completed guest lists from fiance and both families.  Compile your final master list to determine the number of invitations and announcements to be ordered. Select your wedding cake, giving careful consideration to style, flavors, size, decoration and color.  Consider fresh flowers and strings of removable pearls. Also see “Tips on Cutting and Serving your Wedding Cake”...

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