The Bachelor Party Dear Fran: My fiancé's best man has planned a bachelor party for him, immediately following our rehearsal dinner and the night before our wedding. I don't want to spoil their fun, but I am afraid the whole wedding party will have a hangover during our wedding. How can I tell my fiancé I don't want him to have a bachelor
party? Jodie W. Dear Jodie: Pure and simple, you can't. Not anymore than he could have told you that a bridal shower was, "out of the question". However, it is very appropriate for you to voice your concerns as to how the party may affect their performance during your wedding the following day. There is no written rule the bachelor party must be held the night before the wedding. Suggest to your groom and the best man that it be scheduled the week
before the wedding. Be sure to visit "Pre-Wedding Parties and Events" Sincerely, Fran | 
